Assaulting the elderly!

Absolutely disgusted to wake up this morning to yet another assault of an elderly man.  This time a 90 year old for God's sake.

It is becoming more and more prevalent and as far as I am concerned this gutless cowards who pick on them should get automatic 5 years jail;  no ifs or buts.

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High time that Death Penalty was brought back .. there is enough people in the world without these gutless wonders.

Suze, I am with you 100% why do we have to feed and house these scum!

Cowards!!

 

Nah - get rid of all the "mouldy oldies" -they take up space - total waste of time - cost  the Govt. too much in Pension Payments and Medicare - Homecare etc. etc.  - nah - kill 'em all off!  Now!!!

Dan the Man  (Vic. Premier)  has the idea already in place -  in Vic.  - Euthanasia!  Yayyyy!    

Kids??  - well they don't wanna' look after them - their parents "incontinent"  (when they not traveling the Continent)  and - with the kids supposed money?   lol lol 

Argggh - I could go on - oh yeah - look out Frank - they also buy up big on sausages - (poor souls can't afford too much else?)   lol lol 

They stick their foot on the accelerator (instead of brake) plough through brick walls/people's homes/cafes/businesses!  

Waste of space!  Cull 'em all off now!!!   

(this post is meant to be funny - so if anyone gets upset - not my problem!)   :-) 

How dare you Foxy

you are a disgrace . Everyone is leaving the forum because of your insults on them and now you are insulting every oldie 

why can’t you post kind intelligent and inspirational posts like Thea . Positive quotes, happy quotes , minbogglngly boring but pretty posts with fairies and funeral music 

 

LOL LOL LOL LOL  ........... hey Raph - if I did not know you better.......huh?  Funny ......    lol 

ha ha foxy,     only the other day,  we were speaking of this,    ya,   this new bill will have a few kids on there toes,  looking to trip poor old mum or dad over,      [wheres that money]   lol,    luckily i dont have any,,  so dont have to worry,     at least when the kids come to visit,  i know its to see me.,,   not my money,  

I do not usually reply to your smart arse answers Foxy but this is way over the top -- the Older folk have paid their  ******* taxes so they are not bludging at all.

This answer of yours was NOT funny in the least --it was obscene!

Whooooaaaa!   I never inferred they were bludging???   ... you have no sense of humour whatsoever PlanB - lighten up!  It was written "tongue in cheek" - obviously I'm not on ya' Xmas list?      lol lol lol .........   :-)

You can see assaults on oldies every day on this site by Micha who says he is 38

Is that what happened to you Pete? You got assaulted by Micha? I always thought your fall out resembled the kind two lovers often have? Very bitter sweet. You seem very attracted to him and it wouldnt surprise me to see you both back together if you could forgive his assault on you? Was it really bad?? 

Stay on your "nice" frankfurter side Frank - you are a lot nicer that way! No need to insult/bully people!  What's the point?

Micha bugger off you invade every thread .

 

To this day I have grave doubts about Brocky's leanings on the sexuality scale. A few years ago his avatar name was "Lace" and when he was banned for bad behaviour, he returned in the guise of "Eileen". Little Brocks loves female names, wonder why??? I did assault him, cos he kept coming on to me!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rVxcwe7EcaY

Brocky,

Take no heed.

Everyone here knows the truth.

Micha is having grandmother fantasies again

That’s OK Twilsy the poor lonely sod makes up stories about everyone including himself .

I know , I know Brocky. :( When did you find out that he was actually 65? Just try to put all that behind you so you can be happy.

I just turned 39, and Bricky won't leave me alone. He likes young men.

Bugger, why can't he keep his hands off young guys???

Assaulting the elderly! In addition to Radish's original post.

Humour, jokes and YLC acrimony aside, I find reports like the one below just awful if true.

Vulnerable elderly Victorians are being bashed, sexually assaulted, threatened and robbed in nursing homes, new police figures show. A Herald Sun investigation has found our aged care system in a shocking state, with 191 crimes against people ­recorded in 2016. Elder Rights Advocacy chief executive Mary Lyttle said dementia sufferers were most vulnerable to psychological abuse and isolation.

Full HS story from February 8, 2017.
http://www.heraldsun.com.au/news/victoria/vulnerable-elderly-victorians-easy-prey-for-abuse-in-nursing-homes/news-story/3343d6d0a458f9716a5ad2bd3d2e79d4

And another one Radish ... what can you say.

"A 15-year-old boy has pleaded guilty to sexually assaulting, robbing and bashing an 83-year-old Perth woman after breaking into her southern suburbs home. The offences included four counts of aggravated sexual penetration, one charge of using violence to gain money and one count of assault causing bodily harm."

Full story.

His parents should be charged with something! Sickening. 

Micha your lack of wit betrays your youth everytime..

Frank, will you please stop pretending to be me, now Brocky will transfer his love interest to you and I won't feel so loved anymore!!

Brocks please don't ignore me, please

Bracky, I know what it's like . This happened to me as a teenager and I saw Kerry in every girl I met. It hurts mate. Would it help if I got another avatar?

You really have a nasty problem with women and gays Micha .

Seek help young fella ..

Bucky, if you stay with me and not throw me over for the sausage, I'll play this for you every night

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4b-by5e4saI

Rape...always disgusting but it is mind blowing to hear of a 15 year old raping an 83 year old. Wonder why they call it “sexual penetration” rather than rape? Sure it’s the same thing but doesn’t have the same media impact as “15 year old boy rapes 83 year old woman”. Was it a case of a 15 year old being genuinely attracted to older women or was it a case of any vaginal hole will do to get it off? Great that women are starting to expose dubious male penis driven behaviour in effort to change testosterone driven criminal aggression.

R-n-R   ...I just do not know what is happening in the world now.   It is very sad that seniors (I know others also get assaulted as well but I am referring in particular to vulnerable seniors here) who have little chance of defending themselves are having to live their seniors years looking over their shoulder and being fearful.

I used to go walking on my own through bushland not far from where I live but now I would not do so.   

Even going to the supermarkets  I take only what I require to do my shopping and keep my money hidden under my blouse.  I am one of the fortunate ones who can still run and am quite fit but there are a great many who have difficulty walking let alone being able to run to get away from someone wishing to do harm.

 

Robi -  it may not have been an actual "rape"? ...  as apparently "sexual penetration" is often used in the Media for "Digital Rape" ......... either way it is abhorrent - my heart goes out to that poor lady!  :(

 

 

 

 

Such an appalling indicment of society ...

A refrain I keep repeating ad nauseum, a civilised society it known by how it treats its most vulnerable.

Without excusing the inexcusable, I do wonder how this 15 year old boy reached the state he did to rape an  elderly woman... what was going on in his life?

As for cruelty in nursing homes ... it beggars belief.  I imagine that the homes don't go out of their way to employ psychopaths, but ordinary people ... and then this happens.

Also ... there are so many forms of abuse ....

A medical specialist has told of the times when family don't want an elderly relative to have life extending treatment ... and this treatment was to provide a good quality of life.  Other specialists have experienced the same.  For some the $ sign .... !!!

With euthenasia now legal in Victoria, undoubtedly some elderly are going to fall through the cracks.  Very sad.

 

 

... Twila - let me tell you what happened to me today ........

A dear friend of mine  (my hairdressing friend for many years)  - has been  visiting her Mum   (88 years of age) - who had a stroke - 5 years ago!!!   She has visited for the whole 5 years - every day - every day!!!  Her Mum cannot dress - feed herself - cannot turn a magazine page - cannot pick up a pen - (she loved Crossword Puzz.)  - a spoon - nothing ............ BUT ..............her brain is 100% "with it" and is /has been begging to die for ages!!  Imagine that!!!??? Soooooo sad!!!!

My friend (who rarely lets emotion get the better of her.....) called me and said ...."I don't thnk I can cope with this much more..." etc. etc.   (I had met her Mum a few times but never visited the Nursing Home as was not that "close" ..... however ..............)

I said to my dear friend "Hey would you like me to go with you next time?  No probs if you don't?"   She said "OMG I would love that and so would Mum ......"

So - I bought a lovely little Individual Iced Xmas Cake - a pack of "Scotty Dog" shortbread biscs. -  and some Lindt Chocs....wrapped them all - curling ribbon on top   etc. blah blah.........did a card .......

My friend comes to pick me up - says "Oh geez - I should have told you - Mum is not allowed any treats/ nice eating "stuff" - whatever ........I'm so sorry we can't take your Xmas gifts!!"

WHAT!!!!!!!!!!!?????????????    (I had NO idea......) so she then proceeds to tell me .......

.... you are not allowed to take food/biscs/chocs etc. etc. into Nursing Homes.......in case they "choke" (not being under supervision!) and the families sue the Nursing Home!!

Their bedside drawers are checked on a regular basis (to make sure they not hiding any "goodies" etc.) ..... this is appalling - appalling!  I had NO idea this went on in Nursing Homes!!!!!   No idea!!!

I am a still sick with what I saw today!!!  Elderly people in recliner chairs in a semi-circle - all watchng a very loud TV high up on a wall ......no one there - no staff member - nothing!  My friend told me they put them there at 8.30 am - (after brekky) then give them lunch there....change their Nappies etc. and then put them back in the chairs til dinner time - feed them - then into bed!!!!   

Tell ya' what - no fun in getting old and I am scared out of my mind as to how we/myself could possibly all end up!  I truly wished I had never gone there today - I am still ill as I type this ...........................

Frightening/terrifying in fact .............as she is of "sound mind" I myself - would want - BEG for Euthansia NOW.........!!!   

I am still so upset .........

 

Foxy,

How terrible for your friend, her mother and seeing this yourself.  I do sympathise.  Truly.  I would feel the same way.

It sounds a dreadful, dreadful place.  They should be monitored.  There is no excuse for this sort of treatment.

Also, you know, 88 years is not so very old.  I know quite a few very active 88 year olds and older. One friend is in her early nineties and travels frequently.

A number do have health issues, but these are well under control and effect their daily living not one iota ... not one iota at all.  And they still like to look great!!

The main thing is ensuring your health!!  Keeping on top of it ... and enjoying life ...

A stroke is awful and can hit people much younger than 83 years.

Somehow, Foxy, I don't think you will end up like this ... no way!!  :-) 

Also your lovely and loving son ...!!

.. thank you for your very kind words!!   However - what I cannot get my head around is......these people in their twilight years - are not even allowed some "treats/goodies" to eat in their lives?   This is what is getting to me .....sorry .........

oh ...and the semi-circle around the "high/loud" TV!  My friend says the staff never change the Channel!  For God's sakes ..........  ??

This is not a "plebby" Govt. Nursing Home - this is one of the "upper scale" - well if this is one of the  "best"   -  heaven help the others!! No wonder they raking in the bloody milions of $$$$'s  they do each year!  Apologies but I am really angry after today's visit .......

I truly wished I had never gone!

 

 

Foxy,

Many of these nursing homes are very lucrative money-making  rackets. And many of the "owners" reside outside Australia. 

Some time ago an expose was made of this on TV.  Heartbreaking!!

Unfortunately, once in there, the "victims" can't get out ... contracts are signed, money is taken, etc trapping them in.

A government minister was asked to make an opinion.  The squirming and wriggle room he did was appalling and points to something "stinking in the land of Denmark" (metaphorically speaking)

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