Brilliant tip to beat lockdown stress

COVID-19 has wreaked havoc on the world, bringing with it new levels of stress and anxiety. The psychological ramifications of living under strict isolation are more prevalent than ever. 

With more than 30 years of hypnotherapy experience, meditation expert and developer of the Mindfree app, Mark Stephens, says mindful hypnotherapy is a helpful and effective way to reduce anxiety during these difficult times and can be a fast and easy approach to tackling the stress of the COVID lockdown.

“When you meditate you relax, slow down and step away from the mental overload of everyday life,” said Mr Stephens.

“This allows you to focus on the present so you can view stressful situations differently and release pent up worries.”

For anyone experiencing stress and anxiety, Stephens recommends the following practices:

  • Step 1 – Allocate 10-15 minutes to sit back or lie down in a quiet place where you won’t be disturbed.
  • Step 2 – Listen to the sounds around you with your eyes closed, but do not name the sounds. Pay attention to how you are feeling and your thoughts without judging or applying a story to them.
  • Step 3 – Listen to and feel your breath going in and out of your body. Don’t force the breath – just watch, feel or listen to it fall in and out of your body at its own pace and rhythm. Focus your energy and concentration into your breathing.
  • Step 4 – As you inhale, quietly repeat an affirmation like the word “peace” and, as you exhale, repeat the word “release”. Feel peace flowing in with each breath and allow your body to release any tension as you exhale. Repeat this for several breaths.
  • Step 5 – As soon as you feel yourself reaching a state of deep relaxation, use your imagination to envision and feel yourself overcoming any challenges or hardships. Mentally visualise yourself achieving your goals and making positive changes in your life.

 

Have you tried meditation to mitigate the srain of lockdown?

 

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I guess I have meditated in my own way throughout my whole life -- by being in quiet and relaxing natural places and not having any noise around me.   I don't sit in that manner but can do it under most circumstances

I meditate and find it helps me, as well as mindfulness - think positive, change your mindset in your mind, and things do feel and look different....within yourself.

 

 

Doubt I look as 'new agey' or as 'blissed out' as the couple in the photo but yes I do meditate often as a form of stress relief at different times and try to include mindfulness in the everyday....

Heard the phrase the 'sacredness of the mundane' around the ridges somewhere which sort of equates in my mind to the concept of mindfulness/being present/actually turning up for life etc.  notion which seems beneficial in calming, coping and staying on track etc.

Read a couple of  Jon Kabat-Zinn books some years ago on meditation, mindfulness aNd stress reduction,  but there heaps of stuff out there on meditation and mindfulness and it seems very mainstreamed these days...

 

 

  

 

This is what I generally use for meditation…but one can use a chair as long as your back is held straight and does not touch the back of the chair...

 

We often hear amusing stories about people who profess to meditate then minutes later, they attack someone or kick the cat. Those who practice meditation tend to be more relaxed, happy, energetic, healthier and above all positive. One can tell at a glance who really meditates or not.

I have been practising meditation and yoga since I was a teenager and give free classes, during Summer on the beach, because I believe it is one of the most important tools to get people through life. I wish it would become the norm in schools...I'm putting in my two cents' worth in that direction and hope to see results!

Regardless of what anyone says, getting the hang of meditation is difficult and something you have to practice each day..it’s now a way of life for me. So lockdown does not bother me. As a matter of fact I sometimes put myself in voluntary lockdown because I love my own company.

It’s never too late to learn anything..so lockdown is a very good time to start as long as it’s practised daily!

Namaste!

 

 

'This is what I generally use for meditation....but one can use a chair as long as your back is held straight and does  not touch the back of the chair'...Sophie

Yeah well I meditate lying  down on my back, and yes there is a tendency to waft off to sleep once in a while  but generally I meditate just fine on my back....But no drama even if you do fall asleep, just wake up and continue meditating.

Also don't see 'getting the hang of meditation' as being any more difficult than getting the hang of any other new discipline to be honest - just a bit of brain training that like every other new thing takes time and practice - but requiring not much more than breathing and being with your thoughts.  Hell ironing, washing up, painting, embroidering etc. can be both mindful and meditative...think it's all about remembering to be mindful and correctly breathing through a process.

However think  there's a few pretentious wankers sitting about cross legged on silly little wooden seats on public beaches with 'look at me look at me' obsessions, who try to make out there's some sort of mystique attached to it...

Also think 21st education are onto the benefits of mindfulness etc. so you might be able to hold fire with your 'two cents worth' in that direction.

But thankfully some have found meditation, because let's face it there are a few amongst us whose anger management and egomania issues are such that without  it they would be right out of control.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Quote:  "just a bit of brain training that like every other new thing takes time and practice - but requiring not much more than breathing and being with your thoughts."

The whole idea of meditatiion is to be without thoughts. That is what meditation is.

How can you not know that after reading all those books!! 

 

 

                      Meditation for stopping the Coronavirus globally every 4 hours

 

 

                                   NAMASTE!

 

 

Man o man some people don't need meditation they need religious intervention. Glad you ignored her Sophie.

 

No you are wrong Sophie, the mind will always   have thought - that is what minds do....A mind will only stop thinking for a brief time but minds think...maybe minutes rather than hours ..you may empty your mind but before not too very long you will be thinking again - about something.

 The aim of meditation is not to be pushed around by or to react to every single thought that comes into our head.

 Meditation helps us rationalise our thinking because not everything we think is fact or truth, there's a lot of flawed thinking in most human heads that has never been challenged and has simply become an unsettling, stressful even painful thinking pattern.

Meditation can help people process and rationalise thinking to the point that flawed thinking no longer has a troubling impact - that is its health benefit!

Meditation helps us quieten and settle 'the monkey mind' that jumps around erratically at times...allowing us not to be frightened or intimidated by our own stories which have often never been rationally challenged and after years of thinking the same way are too often believed as truth.

And as someone who professes to teach meditation I'm surprised you can claim that

'meditation is to be without thought'

given if you have a mind you will have thought.  If you think meditation is to be without thought you don't understand the practice of meditation at all.

 

 

PS.  Time and time and time again our minds will wander when we meditate the skill is to focus on our breathing or something else time and time and time again...I believe meditation and yes mindfulness is training us to focus and not to be hijacked by our thinking either good or bad which will always be there in the background but with ongoing meditation this thinking may fade away completely and never to overwhelm again..

Think even zen masters struggle with wandering minds and bringing their focus back to the breath every now and then - the discipline and practice attach of meditation results in increased focus not a mind completely empty of thought.

 

I usually meditate with my Doberman, when we both get tired we fall asleep and start all over again. My guru told me to find inner peace you have to make your mind quiet, but it takes time like a good bottle of cognac.

You can do a lot of things to empty the mind of thoughts, if you already have an empty mind then you have a great head start. 

 

Dog Doberman Meditate

Concentration, meditation, mindfulness, and other techniques, help you empty your mind from thoughts. Clearing and emptying the mind is a skill that requires work but the rewards are great. If you wonder whether this might lead to stupidity and lack of the ability to think, then you need not worry. If you’re already stupid, you’re more than half way there.

A mind that can filter out unnecessary thoughts and can stay calm, is a powerful and strong mind, with greater capabilities than a restless mind which cannot stop thinking. My swami also says people who can’t empty their minds of thought have monkey minds, jumping from one banana tree to another banana tree without stopping to eat the banana.

How Mindful Meditation Tames The Anxious “Monkey Mind” – EOC Institute

ps: if nothing works, you can always try some Flamma Flamma!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cs0SYhV_wto

No Lucca  Sophie saying 'Meditation is to be without thought' is incorrect...Because the reality is people do think while meditating...

The skill component of a Meditation practice creates an awareness to allow people to notice these thoughts yet not to become entangled with them and to simply allow them to come and go of their own accord...after all thoughts are pretty much streaming in and out of our heads all day long.

Meditation creates a subtle distance  from thought simply allowing space for all sorts of thinking  be it good, bad, or indifferent to come and go yet building the discipline not to act/react/or be triggered by every thought that passes through our minds thus reducing turmoil and providing a subtle form of restful mental comfort.

The following article might be worth a read and explains what happens to thinking in the meditation process explaining a fairly understandable 'Big Mind Small Mind' analogy.

Google

'What is the difference between Meditation and Thinking'

by Andy Puddicombe, Headspace.com. 5.10.2017.

But if Sophie is running free meditation classes on some beach in summer somewhere casting herself in the role of a meditation teacher and telling people 

'Meditation is to be without thought' 

she's telling them the wrong thing and seems devoid of the basic concepts of a meditation practice.

People who rely on Google for information and then regurgitate it to the public at large usually get the wrong end of the stick or in many instances, no stick at all!

A Google executive admitted that what you always see on Google is not true. No one can say with a certainty that the answers displayed are the actual facts. His exact words were “We’re not a truth engine”.

 Google isn’t an artificial intelligence filled bot or neither it’s your answering bot. It only provides you with different sources to search for your answers from other sources not found on Google.

I am not a meditator, but I do know, contrary to what is spouted here there is “mystique” in meditation. This tradition started approximately 5,000 to 3,500 BCE,  If you are not experiencing that “mystique” then you are NOT meditating, you are just trying to relax.

You Shetso are misinformed and misguided and it is obvious you are trying to denigrate someone who is not only an accredited yoga and meditation teacher; who’s taught not only free classes “on the beach” but also at schools and universities both here and in the UK.

First thing you must do is learn the difference between THOUGHT and AWARENESS.

 

Yes Banjo...there is a great difference between Thought and Awareness. Might add, there are many things you cannot learn from Google and one of them is Meditation.

Meditation is about awareness, and many people mistake this awareness for thinking. Thinking and awareness are two different aspects of mind. Thinking is based on the perpetuation of thoughts from their arising to the next thought, and the next and so on.

Awareness is when your attention is focused on the situation simply observing with your senses. You are aware through what you see, hear, feel, smell, taste. Thinking separates us from the immediacy of the situation. Awareness gives us direct perception of the situation and allows us to perceive it more accurately.

I won't be drawn into a pointless harangue with Shetso...I'm off to see the tulips at Araluen Botanical Park. 

 

Couple of interesting books ...

Happy reading!

 

I wouldn't  worry about Shetso, she's probably off to find a new guru now that she knows Google has failed her LOL. This is a good start and great for meditating.

Glories of Hare Krishna Mahamantra

 

Well no calm down Lucca and don't get too excited - the reason why I said google    the article

'What is the difference between meditation and thinking' from A. Puddicombe from Headspace.com  is because I can't do the blue link thing on YLC, neither can I post pictures etc.

But actuallly  have often thought the organisation 'Headspace.com' was a reasonable source of information - Think I've even seen it advertised somewhere around the ridges as a referral point for those struggling to cope with stress during Covid along with other agencies such as Lifeline, Beyond Blue etc.

But another read (and I won't say to 'google' it this time because it gets you and your mates in such 'a frothing at the mouth with excitement' tangle) and simple say - worth a read is 

'Debunking Myths About Meditation' - Beyond Blue.

And no surprise the first myth being 

Myth 1: In order to meditate I have to stop thinking'

Which seems to position Sophie's claim

"The whole idea of meditation is to be without thoughts. That is what meditation is'

in the realm of 'mythology' rather than fact.

 

 

 

 

36 Clip Art Of Stupid Monkey Illustrations, Royalty-Free Vector Graphics &  Clip Art - iStock you can't debunk something that's thousands of years old ya daft banana. For the last time - meditation is meditation, relaxation techniques is relaxation technques and dat's dat.

 So Flamma Flamma isn't working for ya, try this

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UiSkMxltu00 and if this doesn't work, try this ROFL

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5TKb-hABwfg

 

 

 

Coming back to the topic. I do not meditate but I do various things to help relax the mind. Fortunately, I was able to continue fishing which is something I enjoy. Playing with my grandchildren. Reading and walking in the woods which I find deeply satisfying. A sort of meditation, not in the true sense of the word, but relaxing. Also very fond of our garden and find a lot of joy tending to it. 

 

 

 

Well said Banjo...at least you are not pretending that what you do is "meditation" like some of the ill informed, but regarding it as relaxation. 

Impossible to meditate while washing up, cleaning the loo or ironing..good grief one might end up burning the house down!

 

An update on this claim:

"Myth 1: In order to meditate I have to stop thinking"

Well I spoke to Beyond Blue media support and told them how I felt about that statement..it turns out I am not the only person to contact them about it. They were most apologetic and said they did not write that article..it was written by another organisation called "Smiling Minds." They said they'd be careful about what they promote in the future.

I have contacted "Smiling Minds" and awaiting a reply from them.

I reiterate: in order to meditate, one has to be able to stop thinking instead harness the power of awareness.

No point in coming in with any more silly answers Shetso..but you will..I know you will!!!

 

Well 'Beyond Blue' couldn't have been too apologetic Sophie given  the article is still available for the world  to enjoy on their site...

Surely 'Beyond Blue' as a credible organisation in the Australian community (I mean I see it advertised as a support service all over the place) had they felt the article 'Debunking Myths About Meditation' was inaccurate they should have removed it.....but nope it's still there..or perhaps even added the proviso that 'Beyond Blue' does not share the thoughts and claims in the 'Debunking Myths About Meditation' article and that it's source of origin was 'Smiling Minds' not them...You know as a sort damage control measure  to prevent reputational damage if they think the article is so at odds with their thinking  - lol.
 
Actually after swinging by the 'Smiling Minds' site  thought that organisation looked reasonably credible as well, and actually think I might have seen it advertised as A support service somewhere around the ridges as well.

But of course neither 'Beyond Blue' nor 'Smiling Minds' have anything to apologise about, and the article 'Debunking Myths About Meditation' and particularly their information related to MYTH 1 needs to remain on the 'Beyond Blue' site because it makes complete sense...

You're just real cranky that neither 'Beyond Blue' not 'Smiling Minds' - it now seems - supports your claim that

"The whole idea of meditation  is to be without thoughts.  That is what meditation is".

 

 

 

 

Ps. Made a mistake in second line of second last paragraph it should have read 

'Beyond Blue' nor 'Smiling Minds'

 

Oh dear, another example of stupidity writ large.. they were not asked to take anything down…why would they be? It’s not harmful or life-threatening information…now, if they were asking people to meditate while hanging off the side of a cliff, then that would be different! For them to be asked to retract something like the so-called "myth" would diminish them in the eyes of those who use their site (like you for example). No.. the request was to try to be more discerning in the future and, they agreed.

Anyway, it is good to see you are accessing both Beyond Blue and Smiling Minds..some good can only come from that. Keep at it. I respect both of those organisations and the work they do. I do donate to Beyond Blue and you can do the same here:

 https://www.beyondblue.org.au/get-involved/make-a-donation

However, as they themselves admit they do try their best to give credible information but sometimes miss the mark.

You may find this app useful. Have you downloaded it yet?

https://www.smilingmind.com.au/smiling-mind-app

 

 

 

Umm ..Got the distinct impression Sophie you thought 'Smiling Mind' were a bit dodgy...Given how you're awaiting their reply to your angst about their article 'Debunking Myths Around Meditation'.

But anyway it seems the person who wrote the article is Catherine Morey-Nase, Mindfulness Content Development Co-ordinator - Smiling Mind...she wrote the article on 7.8.2019.

There's info on the Smiing Mind site about Catherine Morey-Nase...and not seeing any indication anywhere at all on either site  BB or Smiling Mind that Morey-Nase missed the mark in her article - in fact think she was right on point.

 

 

Argh, buzz off Shetso. Do some mythical yoga/meditation or whatever you do and curb the doberman urges.

 

For any interested persons...it is best to meditate without any distractions. Sitting upright, preferably on a meditation stool, allows one to breathe easily and freely and helps with alertness.

The breath is what one has to be aware of during meditation. It will take a while to get the hang of meditation..but practice is the key. It took me a year of daily practice!

Here's a short meditation, no distractions..there is a timer which tells you when to begin and when the 10 minutes are up. No music, just silence.

NAMASTE!

 10 Minute Meditation Timer - YouTube

 

 

                                             https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nBNwm0yqxjw

 

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