Parenting or Grand Parenting

I thought you would be interested in this story I found on MSN: Dad's lesson to 9-year-old son about bullying goes viral http://a.msn.com/01/en-au/AAokkOS?ocid=se
 
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How would you handle a bully if you saw it happening?

Or if it was happening in the play ground to your children?

There seem so much of it around these days, looking on the football field when we have to sit through the sports news, I think it has increased by the Coach trying to get players to assert themselves.

 

It is hard very hard, it was hard 35 years ago bringing up two sons alone..... I can understand what Jacqui is being emotional about.  Life is not black or white, there are lots of colour between!

There are people out there in their 70s struggling to care for grand children too.   But this shaded area of grand parenting seems to be quiet or hidden I do not know which.

So many youngsters would be in homes or orphanages if it wasn't for their loving grandparents.



'It's shameful, it's embarrassing': Jacqui Lambie breaks down as she reveals her battle 'to put food on the table' as a single mum - and defends family welfare benefits

Senator Jacqui Lambie (left and right) has broken down in tears in Parliament as she detailed the struggle she endured as a single mother raising a family on benefits.The independent senator blasted the government for passing a bill slashing $1.3billion from the budget, cutting welfare for thousands of people. Ms Lambie cried as she said she could barely afford to put food on the table for her children and once could not afford to buy her son football boots. 'There were times when I would sit in a corner and cry because I felt so ashamed,' she said during a moving 15-minute speech in Parliament on Wednesday night.


It is refreshing to see a politician with a real view of life for ordinary Australians.  She is at least speaking from the heart and personal experiance, not following some last century political dogma like so many career politicians do.

I believe that you should not be able to run for Parliament unless you can demonstrate a history of living and working in the real world.

And by that I don't mean getting out of Uni and joining the senior ranks of a Union organisation or going straight into Daddies law firm, serving three years and then going into a safe seat.

 

Today in London a visit from Duchess of Cambridge talking about being a mother.

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2017/03/23/duchess-cambridge-admits-suffers-lack-confidence-pressure-perfect/?WT.mc_id=tmg_share_em 

The Duchess, the mother of Prince George and Princess Charlotte, said even she, with all the benefits of having help at home, had found parenthood a "huge challenge"  

The Duchess of Cambridge has spoken of the "pressure of being a perfect parent", as she admits experiencing "lack of confidence and feelings of ignorance" after becoming a mother.

The Duchess, the mother of Prince George and Princess Charlotte, said even she, with all the benefits of having help at home, had found parenthood a "huge challenge".

Launching a project about mental health in early parenthood, she said: "Nothing can really prepare you for you the sheer overwhelming experience of what it means to become a mother."

 

I could not agree more!

There is a report out that last week Prince George announced to his grt grandmother to a hushed room that 'mummy has a baby in her tummy'  not sure how true this is, but the report went onto say that the Duchess wants four children by the time she turns 40.

The Queen apparently called for champers all round!

 

I read somewhere it could be twins!!

I remember reading that with the last pregnancy, but I think this is probably not in the running as it was mentioned yesterday of all the 'appointments' the duchess has for this year.  She usually is sick at the begining of each pregnancy.  Poor woman.

why not,   ?  she can afford them,   not like the struggling parents out there,    she wont get her 'benifits cut'     there will always be enough food on her table,     bugger the poor,  

If only we could select our parentage and not suffer hereditary illnesses, I bet there is many a time HM wishes she was down on the farm instead of doing what is expected of her when her feet are killing her.

Rather her than me, don't envy her at all.

Me neither..It was bluddy tough bringing up all my children too, and times when I didn't think we would make it to the end of the week, but In truth I loved every minute of it, even though I wasn't much more than a kid myself...( doctors words)...

But I had the freedom to walk to the park without millions of people critiquing my clothes. A choice of how they were dressed and lots of time to learn how to be a mum...

Poor Kate indeed, It would be like living in a goldfish bowl drowning in photographers..

 

Easter this year will be quiet, husband likes it that way.   I would prefer a bit of activity, but we have Monday when the house will be full!

There is a young couple in our cul de sac that are from overseas and don't have family here, they have two young children so I will be asking them over to join us.  It reminds me of when I was young in Manjiumup and we only knew one other family when we arrived.

It brings me to the subject of how many people are there lonely at Easter, that don't have anyone to visit them.    How many people that would love a visit from anyone to speak with and share memories with. This is what I use to do in my 40s for the organization Care. 

Trouble is if we don't join an organization like Care we  don't know about these lonely people, because today how many of us go up to speak to a stranger?  How do we know they are lonely if they are sitting behind locked doors, that most widows and widowers do due to the security issues we have.

It was nice the other day to walk through the park with Sasha  [poodle] and get greeted by a lady walking in the opposite direction.  She admired Sasha and we got talking, I told her Sasha is an old lady of 13 now. She said I am an old lady!  To my surprise this sporty white haired lady with a definate spring in her step admitted to being 83!  I thought how wonderful.  She went her way and we continued on our way to meet up with hubby sitting on the park bench.  He cannot walk with us anymore which is sad because when I speak to Sasha she doesn't reply, her only interest is running after the tennis ball even at her age!  Of course she sometimes likes one of her own kind and greets them, but not keen on bigger dogs.  She is a small standard,  20 inches at the shoulder and very ball focused!

East Greetings to you all and please be safe.


Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww how nice.  :-)

Lovely story Ann. Have a great Easter with hubby, Sascha and the Monday mob.

Just talking to a neigbour today she goes down the road to visit an 85 year old widower who has just lost his wife.  She is a retired nurse and happily married. If only we knew more about those folks that are lonely behind closed doors we could invite them in for a tea or coffee and a chat.

How many people live next door to the neigbour and never speak to them.

 

Hi Foxy and RnR.

Thank you both, the park was very quiet and then along came this white haired lady bouncing along, she was fantastic.

Nice quiet Good Friday today, just how we like it.  Son came to lunch and we just sat and chatted in the sunshine.  I had cooked fish and some steamed vegs. Husband made a lovely fresh fruit salad.  Then the guys had a coffee and I tea. Lovely day.

Son left for home and I came in here to read and post.

A grandparents nightmare.

 

 

Terrifying moment a little boy slips through the gap between a Sydney train and the platform as his horrified grandparents wave desperately for the driver to stop

NEW This is the terrifying moment a young boy falls between a train and the platform as he attempts to board with his grandparent and sister. CCTV footage from Cronulla train station in Sydney's south-east last year and shows the young boy just vanish between the gap while boarding the train - one of 223 children who fell on to the tracks in Sydney in

 

Horrifying Ann...I can't even watch that..:(

I remember many years ago standing on a railway platform as a baby in a stroller slid onto the tracks in the path of an oncoming train, A young guy appeared from nowhere and jumped onto the track ,grabbed the baby ,and scrambled to safety just before the train demolished the pram..I can still hear that mother's screams...

 223 children fell beneath trains at Sydney stations last year, wonder how many fell Australia wide???

If the parents are so carelless they should make the kids in their charge be on a lead.

 

Ann..like Cranky..I can't watch it either..

My children all wore leads...

 

I had two on reins, and one in the pram...but in those days the railway guards were a great help, I rode into town in the guard van...

Ladies although I watched it, I cannot see it happening, it must have happened very quickly.....it is more common than you think.

I was saying to husband who used to build railways   [called civil permantent way engineering ] includes bridges and drainage, earthworks mine sites rail.   How does this happen?

He doesn't know, of course there has to be a space there to allow room for the carriage.  I guess the issue is like you said the adults should be more careful. I always had the hand of my two went we went on a train, but I have to admit it was not often.

Gosh Abby I did not realize it was that many, I can remembering it happen on a suburban train outside Brighton once.  [Victoria]

Perhaps it is the result of socity change and people do not know how to parent or grand parent

Instead of looking after their children .. the kids get dumped into a créche and the time the socalled parents spent with the children is as thier friends ... there is NO parenting.

I can still remember the guards at the London underground stations shouting.."mind the gap" as you board the trains..

We ought to have platform screen doors in our stations like Singapore..many suicides have been prevented since their MRT installed those years ago...


We are going to on our new underground system in Sydney . I think crossrail in London has as well .

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