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Why palliative care is not just somewhere to ‘park’ a loved one while they wait to die

John Clements, Mollie Wilson, Professor Jennifer Philip and Professor Peter Hudson

John’s first exposure to the world of palliative care came in early 2016, when his late wife, Jane, reached the final stages of pancreatic cancer.

John and Jane hadn’t given much thought to the idea of palliative care until things became really bad, and even then, they held the view that palliative care was just somewhere people were ‘parked’ while they waited to die.

However, when palliative care became involved, Jane’s situation improved markedly and their perspectives changed. With the benefit of hindsight, John recognises that the referral to palliative care came far too late.

Evidence supports early integration of palliative care. Picture: Getty Images

Palliative care reality check

Evidence clearly shows that palliative care improves the quality of life of patients with advanced illness and their families and caregivers – whether physical, psychological, social or spiritual.

Despite palliative care being recognised as an essential component of universal healthcare, with calls for it to be recognised as a human right, the World Health Organization (WHO) estimates that still only 14 per cent of those in need of palliative care receive it.

Furthermore, it seems that much of the palliative care delivered is restricted to end-of-life care, commonly the last weeks or months. This is at odds with evidence supporting earlier integration of palliative care.

Although nearly all healthcare professionals will inevitably need to provide palliative care. The overwhelming majority do not receive any formal training, nor is there sufficient investment in research funding to underpin care provision.

Now, some years later, John has seen and understands the evidence that earlier access to palliative care leads to better outcomes for people with advanced cancer.

This knowledge, and Jane’s and his experiences, have galvanised John to make other people in the community more aware of the value of these services.

This led him to Voices for Palliative Care.

The power of lived experience: Voices for Palliative Care

Voices for Palliative Care (or ‘Voices’ for short) is a group of people with lived experience of serious illness, who are committed to ensuring community and consumer voices contribute to research in palliative care. This includes involvement in health service planning and advocacy for improvements in care for people with advanced illness.

Community and consumer involvement has long been a feature of other areas of health delivery or advocacy and is now considered a vital component of research, but the opportunities for this to occur in the setting of palliative care are much fewer.

Raising the community voice ensures people with serious illness are accessing the best possible care. Picture: Getty Images

People with advanced illness are often navigating intensive and sometimes difficult treatments, as well as progressive fatigue and ill health. Meanwhile, their family members are frequently very busy providing support and care with little time for their own needs.

This means that there has, until recently, been little consumer and community input into research, policy, service development and advocacy.

In Voices, many members like John have been carers of someone close who has or could have accessed palliative care. Others are passionate community members who see a significant health and societal need to be addressed.

A key focus is raising the community voice – ensuring people with serious illness and those around them are accessing the best possible care.

John reflects that the reluctance of medical staff to refer Jane to palliative care earlier may be related to several factors: the view that palliative care is an admission of defeat, a dislike of breaking bad news, and a fear of an adverse reaction from the patient and/or carer if the subject is raised.

This reflects a problematic misunderstanding of palliative care, from both the public and healthcare providers, which is echoed in our recommendations for reframing how palliative care is presented.

Palliative care is too often considered, in the minds of both healthcare providers and the public, as exclusively about death and dying, and associated with a loss of control or abandoning of hope. John’s view is that if people knew what palliative care can offer, they would take it.

And so he is raising his voice.

Other members are also speaking out. Imelda reflects on the power of having knowledge as a carer:

“When we empower them to have a voice in negotiating for the very best in care, we help them to become partners in this palliative care journey … Rather than feeling helpless and swept along with the necessary treatments, moving through an unfamiliar medical minefield, they can learn to take control, influence decisions, ensure that the values of their loved one are brought to the forefront and respected, and they can come through this traumatic time with the knowledge, after their loved one’s death, that they ‘did it well’.

“The benefits for a carer/relative’s mental health following an end-of-life journey which has been compassionately managed through clinician/consumer teamwork are very significant.”

Voices offers a platform for researchers to engage with community members and consumers. Picture: Getty Images

Voices is an initiative of the Palliative Care Research Network, a group of over 500 palliative care clinicians and researchers who, with support from the Victorian government, work to foster collaborative scholarly inquiry in order to enhance the evidence base of palliative care.

Voices offers a platform for researchers to engage with community members and consumers, either collectively or individually, to enrich their studies and projects.

Since the group was established in 2022, Voices members have joined the investigator teams of several research studies, covering areas like telehealth and care of people with high-grade brain tumours, and have contributed to consultation and review processes for national service development related to priorities in cancer care.

Further, they have advocated for medication availability and consumer involvement in palliative care.

In 2024, their work is focused on developing a public awareness strategy to share their message about the importance of resourcing palliative care and promoting the benefits that palliative can bring to the wellbeing of people with serious illness and their family carers.

For John, the message is clear – once palliative care became involved things were much better for he and his wife Jane.

When it comes to what you or the person you are caring for need, if the subject of palliative care is raised, don’t be afraid, don’t be intimidated and above all, be prepared to speak up if you don’t understand something.

Have you experienced palliative care with a loved one? Was it positive rather than negative? Share your thoughts in the comments section below.

Also read: Inquiry to examine women’s pain and why it is different

This article was first published on Pursuit. Read the original article.


  1. Palliative care, hopefully not for me, I would prefer Voluntary assisted dying rather than reaching dementia and not knowing who you are or who any of the family is. Sadly you have to go before you reach that stage under all State and Territory legislation.

  2. Palliative Care was a Godsend during the final 6-7 Months of my partners 5 year battle with Cancer, which started with Breast Cancer, through a couple of minor cancers into Lung Cancer and finally a large Cancer Tumor in her Liver.
    The help and support that the Palliative Care Nurse gave was amazing, and made those final few months bearable !!

  3. Once diagnosed with dementia an assisted dying contract should be made possible for the future; hopefully when you realise you’ve gone far enough you should be able to pull the plug and not end up a living vegetable in some institution.

    • I agree with Tood 100%. Once diagnosed with dementia we should have access to Voluntary Assisted Dying options. We can choose a date before we are forced to continue living, unable to recognise our friends or family, unable to get out of bed or have any quality of life. This is not living. This is a long long slow dying.

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